Gawkers

"We are a culture of watchers. We watch everything. We gawk at it with our mouths open. We point to it. We pick at it. We make it bleed and the blood never runs dry. It suspends our disbelief.

We know more about Paris Hilton's lack of discretion (and a camera lens); Britney Spears' lack of underwear (and hair); Lindsay Lohan's paparazzi-induced demolition derby; Anna Nicole Smith’s oversupply of her baby’s fathers; and Donald Trump firing shots at Rosie O'Donnell and vice versa, until Rosie falls out of view and Trump raises his flag on her cheeks (Yes those cheeks.)

We know more about these people whom we have never met and probably won’t ever know on a personal level than we do about our own families. And that’s not a good thing. Sure we engage in the folly of the celebrity for fun, but when it replaces real news then there’s a problem.

It’s about finding your place in society, feeling like you’re a part of it all. Fitting in by not fitting in. It’s finding your own spectacular moment. The defining moment when you make a connection with something greater than yourself. When you feel there’s a greater force pulling the strings, shaking the trees, moving the clouds and realigning your consciousness."


~Alexys Fairfield


Read more in...Living Under The Influence

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Distraction

"It is a constant challenge to be the best people we can be because we get distracted by minutiae. Although sometimes we may feel inadequate for any reason, we are never inadequate in the eyes of Spirit.

We are all here to be coworkers with each other for a higher purpose. How else can our souls be purified?

Feeling inadequate may be part of the reason why excess has become part of life's premium service. We want life with as many channels as possible. With all the bells and whistles. With as many opportunities to be distracted as possible. In the end, we are only prolonging the agony of defeat with a false thrill of victory.

We are minions for the silver-tongued, shiny tooth salesman who sells us used goods that we don't want or need, all to the soothing sounds of Cha-ching.

As amazing as technology is, it robs us of our sensibilities and fills us with artificial colors, flavors and sweeteners; all the junk that we don't want to eat."

~Alexys Fairfield



Read more in ...15 Minutes And Counting Part II

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